Two sports · 04

Still a golfer

About 15–18, then forever

Two varsities is allowed. College golf is optional. The game is still theirs at 40 even if they never posted an AJGA number.

A week on this rung

Nights after the other sport. Family on the weekend.

2–3 weeknights

They own 1–2. High-school practice counts. The other sport’s practice counts. You make food.

The weekend

Match, game, or family 18. All three are golf-adjacent. The last one is still golf.

  1. School nights. Team practice. You stay in the car.
  2. Saturday. Match or the other game. They post if they want.
  3. Sunday. Family 18 or off. Both are allowed.

You, this week

  • Transport and food.
  • Ask about hole 8, not hole 2.
  • If they don’t want college golf, you didn’t fail.

Clubs that fit

Fit them like a person. Used irons after you know the length. Not a prospect bag for a kid who also plays Friday nights.

Where they compete

  • High school golf if they want it — free competition with friends
  • The other varsity in its season
  • Club championships, the Sunday muni, family 18
  • AJGA / Junior PGA only if they ask twice and the number belongs

How We Practice this week

They own the session. You don’t. Putting still wins.

Up and down from 20

Up & down · 20 min · Course

Ten balls around a green, different lies. Putter lives in the bag until the chip is done.

Chip then one putt. Keep a score out of 10. Beat last week.

Ten. Not until the bucket is empty.

YouTube · Golfing World. Watch it, then do the version written above — shorter, and you stop on time.

HORSE from 15 yards

Up & down · 15 min · Course

They play from 15 yards. You play from 25. Same flag. Small stake: loser buys the slushie.

Call the shot (bump, regular chip). Make the up-and-down or take a letter. First to HORSE walks in.

One game. Protect the series.

YouTube · Peter Finch Golf. Watch it, then do the version written above — shorter, and you stop on time.

Drawback

Putting · 12 min · Course

Start at 4 feet. Make it, stay. Miss, the next putt is one grip farther away.

Get back to 4 feet. That’s the game. They keep the tees.

If they’re putting from 20 feet in anger, you already lost. Reset to 4.

YouTube · Operation 36 Golf. Watch it, then do the version written above — shorter, and you stop on time.

Boring routine

The rest · 15 min · Range

Ten balls. Same club. They must: look at a target, take one rehearsal, step in, go.

If they skip a step, the ball doesn’t count. You are the referee, not the coach.

Ten honest reps beat forty wiggly ones.

YouTube · MAKE THE TURN. Watch it, then do the version written above — shorter, and you stop on time.

Three-hole match vs parent

The rest · 45 min · Course

They play their tees. You play from farther. Small stake: they pick dinner if they win.

Match play. You do not give putts you wouldn’t give in a tournament.

Three holes. Protect the series.

The little book

The rest · 10 min · Course

A cheap notebook in the bag. After each hole: club off the tee, miss, what they’d do again.

They write. You do not edit. Patterns show up in a month.

If it becomes homework, it dies. Three words is a complete entry.

Your job

If they pick the other sport in November, you didn’t waste the Sundays. You raised a golfer who can also hit.

Skip anyone selling a guaranteed D1 ride. Skip making them quit the thing that made them.